Following the Light is a series of blogs that point to the brights spots where I see renewal and rebirth in the world of religion and spirituality. The series will continue through the Christian season of Epiphany.
The world turned its eyes to the news that followed the shooting of 10 Amish schoolgirls in quiet and reclusive Lancaster, Pennsylvania in October of 2006.
Descriptions of the shooting itself came first. Ten young girls were held hostage and were subsequently shot by Charles Roberts, a milk delivery man. Roberts then turned the gun on himself. Five of the girls died as a result of the shooting. One was seriously and permanently injured. The others recovered from their injuries.
Then the second wave of news came. Within hours, members of the Amish community reached out and offered comfort, support and forgiveness to members of the Roberts’ family. They offered public forgiveness to Roberts himself and invited Roberts’ wife, Marie, to the funeral of one of the girls. Several members of that Amish community attended Roberts’ funeral, including some family members of the victims.
Commentary about the extraordinary grace they showed the killer, Charlie Roberts, flooded the airwaves. Most expressed stunned disbelief, but others expressed angry criticism that people from that community would forgive someone capable of such a horrible act.
Just as quickly as they came, news trucks pulled out of that quiet part of Pennsylvania. But, the story continued.
Roberts’ mother and his former wife have spoken up about the impact that act of grace from the Amish community had on their ability to heal. Roberts’ mother, Terri, has spoken at church events in the past several years recalling how important the forgiveness of the Amish community was to them in the days that followed the shooting. Their act of forgiveness and attendance at Roberts’ funeral spurred her to reach out to members of the families of the victims. She first invited them to her house for tea and conversation. Eventually, she began to help care for the most terribly wounded survivor, Rosanna King, spending one evening a week with her.
“As we reach out in ways that bring a touch, we can find great healing,” Terri Roberts reportedly said.
These extraordinary acts of grace have the ability to shine incredible light in the world. The Nickel Mines Amish community and the Roberts family showed a stunned, angry and disbelieving public that grace can and does belong in the most difficult situations. They were simple, faithful people living what they believed about God and forgiveness under the most horrible of circumstances. They didn’t just give their beliefs lip service, they sought to make them live and breathe.
This story makes me hopeful because the world looked, even if briefly, at Christians who were living a faith that not only helped them “get by,” but was used as an instrument of love and grace when anger and vengeance could have prevailed. Their acts prove that acts of kindness and love can and do change the world.
Some more reading about the incident:
- Amish Residents Attend Funeral of Killer The Associated Press reprinted in The New York Times
- Killer’s Wife is Invited Guest at First Amish Funeral
- Terri Roberts, Mother Of Amish Shooting Perpetrator Cares For Her Son’s Victims by Daniel Burke in the Huffington Post
- Amish school shooter’s mother goes public with healing message by Daniel Trotta from Reuters
- From Grief to Grace: Wife of Amish Schoolhouse Shooter Breaks her Silence on CNN Religion Blogs
Reminds me of the mercy and forgiveness described in Anne Lamott’s “Stitches” of a community in CA that offered solace to the families of some teen boys who inadvertently set a fire that devastated a forest surrounding the town. Grace again. These stories change the world. They also change me.
We are definitely changed by these stories, these acts. Inspires us to extend this kind of grace, too.